Friday, April 24, 2015




The Italian way

Heather Hastings



Counting down the days until the conference with Anziano David A. Bednar of The Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, President Josè A. Texeira, and Anziano Steven B. Allen on Monday April 27th... five days!!!

Yeah, so life here in Reggio? I think you are dying to know how goes it being a trainer. As I'm typing I'm not quite sure what to say as all the thoughts are coming out at once. Last Wednesday night we slept over in Pavia. Thursday morning, get up, I say my parting farewell to sorella Pavich and I go with the STL Sorella Gluck to go pick up our trainees. This group only had 11 missionaries. 9 elders and 2 sisters. So we got to go chill at the cool President Dibb's house. We sat for about an hour and he kind of gave us like a training/advice for training, more like a pep talk than anything, but I guess it was helpful. Then we went across the street to the mission office (we don't know who our trainee is yet). The mission is nice, a cute little place. We all sit down in the packed conference room, trainers and trainees with the assistant’s, office elders and President Dibb and wife. We chat for a bit, kind of get another pep talk that didn't say much about how to actually be a trainer. They start calling up the elders, match up their companions. They did the sisters last. So they call me up (and I kind of had the feeling that my companion would be who she is) and I introduce the city. As I stand up I get really shaky and nervous! Why? Who knew? Then they match us up, and she starts crying. Sorella Montagnoli. She is 19 fresh from Utah. Yep, she is very much Utahn. Both of her parents served in the catagna mission and her sister served her, in this city. She lived in Rome for a year during high school, she studied Italian for a year. We get on our second train and we couldn’t talk to people because we had to sit by our luggage, so we sit down and she says "well let's make the most of this time and start to get to know people." 
She's all business. I had a plan to introduce her to everything and everyone, but she comes in like ten steps ahead of me and wants to jump right in! So, we changed things a bit, She wants to do all these activities to get people involved, and she really will be great for Reggio. She is definitely pre-trained. Kids these days, what are they teaching them now? It works.

Well while we were at the mission home we got to see President Dibb's office, too. That was really cool! He has a map and a board with all the missionaries, where we are serving and our names and info. I wish I got a photo. I would love to work with the President! If sisters get to work in the office ever, I want to be the first one. I know it takes away from proselyting though, so maybe not.

Any who, yeah! So my baby is really cool. She's bold, she likes to talk... a bold country girl, Italian, a hard good worker, doesn't like cheese or dairy! Sleeps very easily. She is organized, so that's good.

This Sunday night we get to come home early and go to bed early to get 8 hours of sleep, because Monday we wake up at 4 and take a 6am train to the Bednar conference. We are SO EXCITED! This past week, we saw some cool miracles. We did a lot of finding work. As far as I know our baptismal date Anna is going well with smoking and she is still set for the 9th. The anziani have a baptism this Saturday in church. Last Friday we got in to teach Maria Cristina, a lady we haven’t seen for a while. We shared Perchèeglivivi with her and we hope to keep teaching her, she is just busy. We met a couple of miracle people: like they came up to us and asked who we are.
Sunday, we ate lunch with the relief society president and her less active kids and a non-member husband. Such a cool family. My favorite: Lasagne, Italian type meatloaf and potatoes, then gelato. Mm. And Focaccia, homemade. So yummy, so much food! Sorella had a hard time.

Monday we looked up the address of an x investigator. Because her sister served here before, she wants to go back and find people that she taught. Well it turns out we looked up the wrong address, and we ended up doing a pass by to someone marked on the map. We got to the house and she had moved out, but we got to talk to her little sister and then we contacted their neighbor and set up an appointment, so that was cool! We took a photo outside the apartment to remember it. House number 2. 

Unfortunately I am out of time because I had to buy train tickets online today. But, we contacted an entire bus yesterday and that was fun! I talked with a man who used to be a pilot, retired. He’s basically traveled the world. Then we took out our pile our trash from two weeks and met our old man neighbor, 90 years old, who told us he was married to his marvelous wife for 70 years and then God took her from him and now he is alone. We talked about the plan of salvation. I wanted more than anything to hug that sweet old man. He said he'll read the pamphlet and we can pass by another time.

Ok, got to go. Those are some miracles, here are some photos. Ya know, I'm not stressed out too bad... just go with the wind, be happy, pray, trust God and do all I can to love and act like Christ. Life is good. Pray for us for Bednar! We are SO EXCITED! Also, here is poem I wrote inspired by being a trainer.
Vi Voglio bene!!!

Sorella Hastings =)

Love and Be Loved

Friday, April 17, 2015







Heather Hastings
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So here's the thing: it has been a busy week but this keyboard is driving me nuts, it doesn't type easy. If I withhold informatino I blame the keyboard. Also I've been chatting, so there is not much time left.

Anywho, we are counting down the days until we have the Bednar conference! 12 days.

Last week we had zone training In Bergamo, another all day trip. We are just preparing spiritually and physically as missionaries to be at our best for when he comes. We won't get iPads I believe until after he leaves. That night we did a scambio, (companion exchange) and that was fun! Went well.

Ok, I will just get straight to the good details. We were waiting around On Friday night getting ready for bed, talking about our predictions for transfer calls. Usually president Dibb will call trainers and sister training leaders and zone leaders first thing Saturday morning, but because he was coming to our stake conference saturday/sunday, he called ME FRIDAY NIGHT! When we saw "President" on the phone, my heart jumped and sorella pavich screamed. It was pretty funny. Sorella Hastings, how is your health? Then we talked for a bit. Well, I need to make sure you can work full time because I have work for you to do, I want you to train a brand new missionary! 
Oh, mamma mia! Ok.
Ok.
Ok.
So he gave me the details. No, I don’t' know who she is! Tonight we sleepover with the sister training leader in Pavia, then tomorrow I go to Milano and we have a little training, then meet each other and yeh! So, I’m going to be a mom! I am in my 7th transfer but I am pretty excited! I could be more anxious, but I do feel pretty good about it. It's what I need and what God needs right now, so there we go. The house is all cleaned and ready for her to come. I am excited and I guess ready enough. I just will do that which my trainer did for me, with some of my own wisdom.

Sunday we had stake conference. We went as a ward in a big bus to Verona! Elder Kleen and my mission president where there, and it was a really good experience. Our investigator Anna came, and she brought her friend Christina too. Anna is preparing to stop smoking and is just so happy! She loves the book of Mormon and is reading right along. She calls us her angels who brought her Jesus. She is sweet, this lady. 9th may. We're gonna make it.

Also Sunday, oh boy. Weston, seriously, how do you  handle these Africans? Guess I haven't got the touch yet. We go to teach Anna a lady we met on the street and she told us she would have a friend for us too. We show up and she lives in an open multi-family open style home. I don't know how to describe it. A lot of Africans and foreigners get those in share them, cheaper. So there was her, and THREE other Africans. But they weren’t just her friends, they were members from her church! They kind of set us up. Ready to hear us out, we teach then the Restauration. It started out great! Christ is the center of our church, god loves us. Then... we got to prophets. We got stuck. They confused themselves and we probably did a bad job explaining. I left feeling very frustrated and so on. We have been doing some good studies and are going to go back with a member from Ghana to re-teach the resto. Me with my brand new sorella...

 Today this morning we went to pass by the Catholic Church next to our grocery store. As we enter, the grounds keeper church keeper man takes us in, we chat about our name tags, then he gives us a personal little tour explaining everything. SO cool. We even discussed our different views on baptism at the baptismal font and he said he'll come to our church sometime. It was pretty cool, and pretty. Cheisa di San Pietro and San Prospero.
Then, Sorella Pavich and i got our last Pizza from Mister Pizza together, and inside a dad says to his boys, "hey you two come talk to these girls, introduce yourselves, they're American."  So they did, and they start flirting with us. Cute, if I can say. But remaining professional (you have NO idea how many times a day we get boys/men hitting on us here in Reggio!) we told them about English class and invited them to meet with the anziani. Ok, so there's hope. Mario and Marco. We'll see.

Fun times dear family. In the past, now and to come. I am happy, spring is here and I am well, no worries. Yu can expect a detailed letter next week about week one with la verdina!

Vi voglio bene! Grazie per il vostro sostengo e tutto ciò che fate per me. Davvero vi voglio bene. Buona giornata, buona settimana!

Sorella Hastings =)

Love and Be Loved

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

La pasqua in italia


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​Good morning! I don't have too much to share today, I don't think. Our work here is starting to pick up and we are running into all sorts of people to talk to. For example, last Thursday we got on an early train to Parma to take a bus out to Noceto. On that bus (a 40 min ride) we passed a huge castle with a huge garden around it! If I am here another transfer i might try to go visit it. But anyways, on that train we sat down next to a lady and begin to talk with her. Her name is Pamella, and she was heading to the funeral of her daughter. She is from Nigeria, and is here by herself. Three years ago she had baby, and the baby died young. She just had this baby in February (premie) but she did not hold out. We talk with her, talking about the Plan of Salvation and the peace we get from it. the Love of God per her. She said she feels like God doesn't love her anymore... but we prayed with her, she showed us fotos and she was happy to talk with us. She does not live in our area so we had to pass her, but meeting miracle people like her are a testimony of why we always need to share the gospel because we never know who we will meet and what they need.​

Easter! Saturday we got to watch some conference and the women's session. We sat at the computer in the church with the Anziani and ate popcorn. I loved it. I loved all of the talks about the family.
Sunday, we had a fabulous Easter meal with the bishop who invited us over and their family. Lasagna (my favorite!) and chicken, veggies, bread, good stuff. They have the giant chocolate Easter eggs with a surprise inside that we cracked for dessert. I like the Columba better, a holiday cake. Yum.

Here were some of my favorite talks from conference: 
Quenton L cook. about the Sunflower
Brent H Nielson who talked about Luke 15 at the beginning
Wilford W Anderson who talked about the need to hear the music and be able to dance to it
Dale G Relund who talked about A saint is a sinner...
Bednar, who said to fear God completely is to love God more prefectly.
Henry B Eyring both times, the law of the fast and finding rest and peace through our savior.

These prophets are so sweet. I love conference! I downloaded all the talks so now i can go back and listen to the Sunday afternoon session which i didn't get to hear. if you didn't listen to conference, take the time to listen to some talks every once in a while.
It's worth it.

Our bap date Anna is progressing well! She is sharing the gospel with all of her friends at work and  that's super cool. We have stake conference this week, and we are going in a bus with the ward to Verona and Elder Teixera will be there, and he wants to meet us and our investigators. Cool stuff! 

Bednar countdown: 3 weeks!

Also, I bought the book on discount today Romeo e Guiletta. I was pretty excited.

So, that's about it. here are some photos, and my companion using time effectively while walking clipping her nails, and some Duomo fotos from Parma today. 

ALSO! Last night we had a sleepover! To change things up. We moved our mattresses into the living room, slept on the floor and chatted as we fell asleep. it reminded me of my sisters. And we ordered a stuffed crust "american" style pizza last night. It was good. Good times. 

I Love you all!
Give me some lunch/breakfast ideas. No one told me what you eat.
Fail.
But I still love you. :)
Look up Alma 4:13-14, thinking our baptismal covenants being for Christ's sake. I read that today, and it was cool.
The church is true, life is good, and next week I will tell you transfer news!

Sorella Hastings =)
Love and Be Loved